Re: [求助] 該離婚嗎
看板marriage (婚姻)作者cchien1226 (看看就好)時間9年前 (2015/12/12 19:52)推噓53(57推 4噓 97→)留言158則, 53人參與討論串13/28 (看更多)
這對父母..別再鬧了
明明兩位就想離婚, 為什麼要包裝成"教養方式無法妥協"? 這樣子良心會比較安嗎?
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首先整理兩位有共識的地方:
1. 承認彼此是用心的好媽媽/好爸爸,只是對帶的方式不認同
2. 帶的方式都會牽扯到原生家庭,但認為彼此的長輩帶的不好
那...為什麼處理方式會是離婚??
是...逃避嗎? 兩個人脾氣太硬?
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我只有一個點希望兩位想清楚:孩子日後長大問說"爸爸媽媽為什麼要離婚?"
兩位怎麼回答?
有人外遇嗎?--->沒有
吃喝嫖賭毒?--->沒有
有金錢糾紛?--->沒有
有恐怖姻親?--->沒有
厭倦小孩了?--->沒有
有家庭暴力?--->沒有
那...兩位要怎麼說?
"因為我們在你三歲的時候, 為了教養方式不同而離婚"
這麼荒謬的答案, 兩位真的說的出口?
如果有真正更深的理由, 請兩位自己私下坦白, 別讓孩子背著這個莫名其妙的愧疚
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