[求助] 配偶外遇後如何重建信任?
外遇過程簡單敘述如下:
我在半年前發現老公外遇,
老公當時說都是因為我不關心他,不在乎他等等一大堆的理由,
所以他才會喜歡別人,
說了很多話傷害我,
然後又欺騙了我很多次,讓我對他的信任都沒了。
現在他對我很好,他自己說他不會再犯,
目前我是打算再繼續下去,但常常做惡夢,
到現在沒有辦法完全的相信他
,
我老公一直希望我可以相信他,
所以他對於他很努力的對我好,但我還是懷疑他感到很無力
老公覺得為什麼事情發生都過幾個月了我還是會提到這件事,
我努力克制不要去提,但有時候一想到心很痛
,
又會把他外遇那段時間傷害我的事情提出來
,
是我自己想太多,鑽牛角尖放不開
,
還是老公外遇這種傷痛本來就不會這麼快就釋懷?
這次發文是想問,
版上有沒有配偶外遇後,沒有離婚又繼續在一起,
被背叛的那一方,要怎樣撫平這段傷痛,
要如何去相信配偶,要怎麼做比較好?
可以給我建議嗎??
謝謝~~
p.s.我想可能會有板友建議我離婚,
不過目前不打算離婚,想要再彼此努力。
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