[苦惱] 該怎麼跟婆婆提不想讓她幫我坐月子跟帶小孩?
是這樣的, 婚前就知道婆婆是那種傳統又強勢的家庭主婦,連老公跟她溝通時都是用
”爭執”的模式, 因此婚後並沒有住在一起(公婆住板橋,我們住新莊).........
因為知道自己也是很有主見的人,早就猜想的到要是住在一起的後果............
現在已經六個多月, 也已經跟老公商量好月子要怎麼做(7天月子中心,
剩下在家叫月子餐)在家坐的期間, 老公可請假及娘家媽媽住付近也可每天來幫忙,
這比較沒有問題..........
但現在問題來了, 主要是帶小孩, 娘家目前不太可能幫我們帶,
但看了網上很多版媽的告誡及自己婆婆的個性(我看她帶大姑的兩個小孩,真是無法認同,
完全是傳統一派), 根本就不想給婆婆帶; 加上公婆本身都有高血壓,
目前我跟老公僅能想到的理由就是”不要公婆太累, 孫子只要假日帶回家含飴弄孫就好,
帶小孩真的太辛苦了”!但怕這理由對強勢的婆婆來講, 好像有點薄弱,
加上老公又不是很擅言詞, 到時聽到我們要請保母,一定會很反對,
不知版媽們有啥更好的說詞或方法嗎?
p.s 因為婆婆通常都不會主動問我們這些事情, 我們要怎麼先開口呢?
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