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看板Aquarius (水瓶座(1/20-2/18))作者yueying (玥影)時間8年前 (2017/12/16 11:45)推噓1(1推 0噓 0→)

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Winning an argument is not just a matter of presenting the right facts and figures to convince someone that they are wrong and you are right. Because you are intellectually inclined, Aquarius, you may see that as the most logical way to proceed. But not everyone has the same grasp on facing reality that you do. Sometimes winning an argument, and convincing someone that you are right is about more than proving you are right - it is about the emotional aspects. Allow this person to go along with their own plan, then quietly make suggestions at the appropriate moments. A non-threatening approach is received best. 贏得一個爭論，並不是只是提出正確的事實和數據來說服他人你是對的而他們是錯的。因為你是偏理性的，所以你看事情總是用最邏輯的方式來處理。但是並不是所有人都有著跟你一樣的理解。有時候贏得一個爭論，說服某個人你是對的，並不是僅僅只是證明就夠了，而是要情緒上真的接受。所以讓這個人用他們自己的計畫進行，然後在適當的時候悄悄提出建議。不帶威脅的方法是最好被接收的。 -- -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 61.223.129.210 ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Aquarius/M.1513395951.A.931.html