[徵女] 尋找善良的妳

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【自我介紹】大家好！我是一位男性，身高170公分，體重75公斤，1981年出生。性格類型為 ESFJ-A [服務型浪漫] + DISC S/C [精密織網者] 九型人格為 9w1 sp/so 962 [和平守護者] 學術格式應寫成 9w1 sp/so (Dis->6, Int->3) 不是傳統的 ESFJ 人而是 Ambiverted SP/SO Stabilizer ESFJ-A 進化亞型特徵是: 中性、穩定的務實平衡者 (Balanced Caregiver) 畢業於法律系，目前擁有一份穩定的工作，收入優渥（年收入持續突破百萬，今年亦不例外）。生活雖如白開水般簡單，卻也充實滿足。在今年的五月報稅季，如同往年，我繳納了約四萬多元的所得稅，適用12%的稅率分級。至今單身，無婚姻紀錄，也無前任糾纏的困擾。健康狀況良好，最近的健檢報告顯示身體狀態優異，宛如健身健將。我熱衷於捐血，認為此舉能助人，內心充滿成就感。無吸菸、飲酒等不良嗜好，身上無刺青，亦無前科紀錄。財務狀況穩健，無負債壓力，使我得以安心投入個人興趣。屬於安全型依附人格，家庭背景單純穩健，定居台北市。父母健在，無需他人照料。閒暇時喜愛在士林、北投、天母及關渡等地漫步，享受生活。興趣方面，我喜歡打桌球、進行戶外慢跑、享受網購樂趣，以及把玩各類3C產品。居家時則偏好聆聽音樂與觀賞有趣的YouTube影片。飲食上偏愛西餐，對中餐較為平淡；至於登山，對我而言更像是欣賞沿途風景。自認性格正向、貼心、友善，處事耐心細緻、沉著冷靜、臨危不亂。為人負責勤奮，兼具務實與靈活，具備獨立思考能力，生活安排井然有序。我是愛狗人士（狗派），曾飼養過一隻邊境牧羊犬和一隻拉布拉多犬，牠們曾是我珍愛的夥伴，但目前暫無飼養新寵。最愛的音樂清單：輕快曲風 → Pharrell Williams - "Happy" 中快節奏 → The Weeknd - "Blinding Lights" 慢板深情 → John Legend - "All of Me" 古典經典 → Bach - "Air on the G String" / 久石讓 - 《天空之城》註：黑色重金屬搖滾曲風，恕難接受。在親友眼中，我個性隨和、人緣佳，常是他們主動傾談的對象。無論事情大小，我都是位很好的傾聽者。當他們需要協助時，只要能力所及，我總樂於提供建議或援手。他們也認為我充滿幹勁，做事能力強且執行力高。一項深藏不露的才藝是：能煮出一鍋超美味的咖哩。一個長大後依然保持的愛好是：玩樂高積木。特別的人生經歷：我的人生故事頗豐，期待與有緣人分享。這其中包括機關首長間的角力、院檢間的鬥爭，以及機關內部令人咋舌的激烈事件。最特別的經歷莫過於早年海外經商時，曾在台灣時間凌晨一點獲悉，我的海外資產（約數十萬元）遭疑似東歐（羅馬尼亞或俄羅斯）IP盜取。為此，我親赴警局報案提告，最終透過PayPal的國際金融聯保機制成功追回款項。此外，我曾參與數起個人訴訟，至今保持不敗紀錄，並取得豐碩成果。人生感悟：人生苦短，不該在暗室中反芻悔恨，不妨以折斷的傘骨在雨中起舞。櫻花不該為凋零蜷縮，而應盛放如漫天緋雪，縱然墜落亦璀璨奪目。熄滅的香煙不該是句點，應將餘燼撒向銀河。斷弦的琴不該沉默，當以裂帛之聲劃破凝滯的夜。最奢侈的浪費並非虛擲光陰，而是將心跳均分為秒，在沙粒從指縫滑落之際，將其熔鑄成鑽石。【尋覓伴侶】期盼與有緣的妳，以結婚為前提展開交往，共同建立一段「穩健、和諧、充滿愛與包容的長久婚姻」，並有生育計畫。希望妳善於溝通、性格良善、無糾纏不清的前任。BMI正常，有運動習慣，無不良嗜好。與我性格相合的理想型MBTI包括SJ守護者最優順序是 ISFJ > ISTJ > ESFJ 次優順序是 ISFP > ESFP > ISTP 帶 N 屬性的先不要寄信給我 ISFJ與我是高默契選擇，並與ESFJ或許具有較高的I值(DISC)，因為我缺乏突出的I值表現。而ISFJ、ISTJ、ESFJ或許會有較低(不那麼強烈)或適當的D值，這是我欣賞與需要的，因為高D值可能導致ESFJ的控制衝突。次優順序的三組，可能會具有較高或稍微不適配的D值，但依然或許是可選擇的。在九型人格中，具有第8型(挑戰者)較高排序者，請不要來信。具有第4型(浪漫主義者)較高排序者，我會審慎考慮，因為你的悲傷情緒有可能會導致我跟著一起，兩個人都陷下去，進入不可測的危險中。如果妳的MBTI不在前面列的6組裡，就不考慮了。若妳對我感興趣，歡迎隨時聊聊！請透過站內信與我聯繫。【簽名檔】《守夜人與星辰的對話》我在土壤深處埋下月光，一粒種子學會了沉默地傾聽，石階上的露珠正計算時間的帳本，直到根鬚碰到另一顆心的礦脈。守夜人的燈塔從不熄滅，他們用指紋在霧中織網，每個結點都懸掛著未兌現的諾言，像桑葉等待蠶的契約。當季風翻動經濟學的頁角，我們在利潤的縫隙種植橄欖枝，果核裂開時流出琥珀色的黎明，帳本背面長出蝴蝶的經緯度。第九扇窗外的森林永遠潮濕，三枚銀幣在泉眼深處旋轉，而第二朵雲始終低空飛行，為所有迷途的根準備傘降的糖。每道年輪都在重寫同一個答案：最堅硬的貝殼裡藏著最柔軟的潮聲，我們在交換呼吸時完成所有數學證明。 --------------------- 【Self-Introduction】 Hello everyone! I am male, 170 cm tall, weighing 75 kg, and born in 1981. My personality type is ESFJ-A (S/C), and my Enneagram is 9w1 sp/so 962. I hold a degree in law and currently work in a stable, well-paying position ( earning consistently over one million NTD annually, including this year). My life may appear deceptively simple—like still water—but it is deeply fulfilling. During this year's May tax season, I paid over forty thousand NTD in income tax, placing me in the 12% tax bracket. I am currently single, with no prior marriages, and have no entanglements or complications from past relationships. My health is excellent, as confirmed by recent check-ups; my results were likened to those of a dedicated athlete. I am a regular blood donor, viewing it as a meaningful way to help others. I abstain from smoking, alcohol consumption, and any harmful habits, and I have no tattoos or criminal record. Financially, I am debt-free and in a secure position, allowing me to pursue my interests without stress. I have a secure attachment style and come from a stable, harmonious family background. I reside in Taipei City, and both my parents are alive, healthy, and independent. In my free time, I enjoy exploring neighborhoods like Shilin, Beitou, Tianmu, and Guandu, savoring the rhythm of daily life. My hobbies include playing table tennis, outdoor jogging, online shopping, and experimenting with tech gadgets (electronics). At home, I enjoy listening to music and watching engaging YouTube videos. Culinary-wise, I prefer Western cuisine but am less enthusiastic about traditional Chinese food. Regarding hiking, I view it as an opportunity to appreciate the scenery along the way rather than a destination-focused activity. I consider myself positive, considerate, and friendly. I approach tasks with patience, attention to detail, and calm composure, remaining unflustered under pressure. I am responsible, diligent, pragmatic yet flexible, with strong independent thinking skills and an organized lifestyle. I am a dog lover and previously owned a Border Collie and a Labrador Retriever , both cherished companions. While I do not currently have a pet, I hope to share my life with one again in the future. Favorite Music Playlist: Upbeat: Pharrell Williams – "Happy" Mid-tempo: The Weeknd – "Blinding Lights" Slow & Soulful: John Legend – "All of Me" Classical: Bach – "Air on the G String" / Joe Hisaishi – "Castle in the Sky" Note: Black/death metal rock is not my preference. To friends and acquaintances, I am seen as kind-hearted, approachable, and a reliable confidant. I am an attentive listener, always willing to offer advice or support when needed. My motivation, capability, and execution skills are frequently highlighted by those who know me well. Hidden Talents: I cook an exceptional pot of curry. Building with LEGO, a hobby I've cherished since childhood. Notable Life Experiences: My life has been enriched by diverse experiences, including witnessing power dynamics among high-ranking officials, navigating conflicts between judicial and prosecutorial bodies, and encountering intense organizational challenges. One unique event involved overseas business ventures: At 1 AM Taiwan time, I was notified that tens of thousands of NTD in overseas assets had been stolen via IP addresses traced to Eastern Europe (likely Romania or Russia). I personally filed a police report and pursued legal action, ultimately recovering the funds through PayPal's international financial protection program. Additionally, I have successfully resolved multiple personal lawsuits , maintaining an undefeated record. Life Philosophy: Life is short. Don't dwell on regrets in darkness; instead, dance in the rain with a broken umbrella rib. Cherry blossoms shouldn't fear their fall; they should bloom into crimson snow, dazzling even in descent. A broken string shouldn't mean silence; let its sharp sound pierce through the night. The greatest waste isn't idleness—it's measuring each heartbeat into equal seconds, transforming fleeting moments into diamonds. 【Seeking a Partner】 I envision building a meaningful, lifelong partnership rooted in mutual respect, shared values, and emotional connection. My ideal companion is someone who approaches life with kindness, open communication, and a willingness to grow together. While I value physical and mental well-being— such as maintaining a balanced lifestyle through regular exercise—I prioritize emotional compatibility over rigid criteria. My ideal MBTI types compatible with my personality include the SJ Guardians ( Sentinels). The primary order of preference is: ISFJ > ISTJ > ESFJ The secondary order is: ISFP > ESFP > ISTP Please do not contact me if your type includes a strong N (Intuition) preference. ISFJ is a high-compatibility choice for me. ESFJ might also have a higher I ( Introversion) value, which aligns with me as I lack strong extroverted traits. Furthermore, ISFJ, ISTJ, and ESFJ likely have lower or more suitable D values, which I appreciate and need. High D values could lead to control conflicts with ESFJs. The three types in the secondary group might have higher or less compatible D values, but they could still be potential options. Regarding Enneagram types: Please do not contact me if you have Type 8 (The Challenger) high in your stacking. I will carefully consider those with Type 4 (The Individualist/Romantic) high in their stacking, as your potential sadness might affect me, risking us both being dragged down. If your MBTI is not among the 6 types listed above, I will not consider it. Ultimately, I seek a partner who embraces life's beauty in both quiet moments and grand adventures, ready to co-create a future filled with laughter, stability, and unwavering support. 【Signature】《Dialogue Between the Night Watchman and the Stars》 I bury moonlight deep within the soil, A seed learns to listen in silence, Dewdrops tally time's ledger on stone steps, Until roots touch the ore of another heart. The night watchman's lighthouse never extinguishes; They weave nets in the fog with fingerprints, Each knot suspending an unfulfilled promise, Like mulberry leaves awaiting the silkworm's pact. When monsoon winds rewrite economic tides, We plant olive branches in profit's gaps, An amber dawn flows as the pit cracks, Butterfly coordinates sprout on the ledger's reverse. The forest beyond the ninth window remains damp, Three silver coins spin deep within the spring's eye, And the second cloud perpetually flies low, Preparing sugar-parachutes for all lost roots. Each growth ring rewrites the same answer: The hardest shells harbor the softest tide sounds, We complete all mathematical proofs while exchanging breath. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 150.116.221.194 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/AllTogether/M.1748770564.A.769.html Wishing everyone a joyful Dragon Boat Festival! May the rhythm of the drums and the spirit of unity bring you happiness and good fortune. ※ 編輯: IDfor2010 (150.116.221.194 臺灣), 06/04/2025 17:24:36