[心情] 天秤是不是很渴望被了解但又覺得很難?

看板Libra (天秤座(9/23-10/23))作者 (恩恩)時間16年前 (2009/09/02 14:45), 編輯推噓92(9207)
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=======================此心情抒發專為天秤寶寶設置====================== 今日想抒發的心情是: 哀 心情背景:似乎很難被了解.... 希望跟板友分享的是:跟朋友聊天後有時候感到低落~ 有時候發現自己總是能扮演一個好的傾聽者 常常有人喜歡告訴我他們的心事 就算朋友的價值觀和自己不同 但對於別人的煩惱 我還是願意試著去了解他的立場 去體諒他的感受 而不會太主觀的去評論別人的事情 或是認為別人的煩惱其實沒什麼之類的 但身邊這樣的人卻似乎很少 如果和朋友透露一點煩惱的事情 他們往往很容易就把別人的困擾簡單化 或是很主觀的評論 有時候被質疑的時候 當下總是不知道該怎麼反駁 可是事後就會想著 如果當時直接回什麼話就好了XD 是不是天秤都很渴望被了解 或是獲得一點別人的同理心 但往往都是我們自己在做的事情>"< 常常被別人說 "妳好了解我喔" 但我有時候也很想被別人了解~ 不想總是得到一句 "是妳自己想太多啦" -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 220.140.36.2

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(天秤發出一陣強烈的光芒後 消失了。)
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15,樓上不合群,哈哈
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+19 所以之後天秤就會選擇只聽不說了...
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+21 快要變成神級武器了
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同感 朋友都說"最懂我的就是你"…但…誰又懂我了…
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+28 大推變成只聽不說
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+25 Q_Q...
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不喜歡被說你想太多+1>"<
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+31..
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+37心事誰人知啊
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+40 這是我們的天職...安慰自己...
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+40 ◢▆▅▄▃崩╰(〒皿〒)╯潰▃▄▅▇◣
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+41 我和樓上只差幾秒
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太準了...我也是天秤...總能給別人同理但沒人能了解
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+47 很想被了解但又覺得根本不會有人了解或想了解..
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+49.我也想有人聽我說!!
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所以秤子要找秤子嗎XD
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+53 所以最後天秤只能獨自默默療傷...
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+54 這是好還是不好
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+55 樓上的想法一直想一直想陷入無窮的迴圈....
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+56 是阿,怎麼講都被講想太多....
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+69 >///<
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+77 巧克力~@@"
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+87 我是朋友的關老師 卻找不到我的關老師
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+88 唉...就是這樣嘍...
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