以天地真理對治偏見

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今天的《生命之光》提到人的「偏見」，以媛腦海中跳出《傲慢與偏見》這本翻譯小說，很寫實地描寫書中人物表現出來的偏見，都來自於傲慢的個性，有貢高我慢的習氣，以至於自以為是而看輕別人。以媛在工作生涯中曾經遇過許多持有偏見的人，有些是看不上私立大學畢業的同事，覺得專業知識不夠紮實；有些是不喜歡和懷孕女性同事在一個Team，認為很快就會生產，請產假和育嬰假，太麻煩；有些是不喜歡和體型過胖的人為伍，認為對方缺乏自制力，行動遲緩也會影響腦力的敏捷程度。總之，有各種理由讓一個人自視甚高，如果他正在風頭上，當然更會意氣風發、眼高於頂。就像太陽盛德導師所說，若將時間軸拉長，無法長期維持贏面，開始走下坡或甚至跌到谷底時，過去趾高氣昂卻疏於做人處事的謙恭圓熟，對人事物持有偏見而致人際關係不佳，此時必然承受孤立無援的無奈，要想東山再起將相對困難。導師經常提到的名言：有時想無時，莫待無時想有時。一個人處於風光的時候，各種資源都相對豐厚，若大肆揮霍金錢、時間、精力，在專業能力、品德修養或利他善行都乏善可陳，一但落魄所嚐到的人情冷暖將更為深刻。的確如導師所說，每個人在不同生活及工作背景中累積了不同的生活經驗及人生體驗，會從不同視角評斷人事物而產生偏見，難以溝通。若能以天地真理為生活與工作判斷的依歸，就能夠藉事練心，做出相對客觀中肯的決定，引導後續言行得以走在中道上而容易成事。 1/29每日感恩小記」第34輪18日 1. 朋友的千金張瀛年紀雖輕，但思慮清晰敏捷，勇於任事，樂於學習電力市場的一些概念和商模，成為與泰國客戶和以媛公司很好的溝通橋樑，非常感恩。 2. 感恩姪子提供在日本設立公司及後續會計稅務等相關資訊，和可以提供專業服務的諮詢服務公司，有助於多方比較和選擇。參東流 https://www.richestlife.com/music-downloads/looking-at-the-river-flowing-to-the-east/ 一生的庸碌有什麼 What is the meaning of the hustle and bustle in life? 再回首似換得一壺酒 Looking back, life is like a bottle of alcohol 又把我推走任憑大海終無留 Drifting in the boundless ocean 這才暢飲感受參東流 Later realizing that life cannot be reversed like the river flowing to the East will never return 亮麗的人生是什麼 What is a glorious life? 是不是終生做飲陳酒 Is it a rat race with more drinking? 終究等白頭怨懟終結總還留 At the end, resentments left unsettled 難免百般感慨參東流 Feeling of vicissitudes like the river flowing to the East will never return 我才懂得人生路由 I then realize what is life 看透什麼叫做足夠 And understand what is enough 夢醒間似懂繁華又何求 Waking up from my dream and asking myself what am I looking for in life 瀟灑追夢領風騷参東流 Chasing my dreams, taking control, understanding the river flowing to the East will never return 參東流知否猜透亦看透 The river flowing to the East will never return, I fully understand and realize 享好過終究要懂參東流 To have a good life, we must cherish it because life is like a river flowing to the East that will never return 亮麗的人生是什麼 What is a glorious life? 是不是終生做飲陳酒 Is it a rat race with more drinking? 終究等白頭怨懟終結總還留 At the end, resentments left unsettled 難免百般感慨參東流 Feeling of vicissitudes like the river flowing to the East will never return 我才懂得人生路由 I then realize what is life 看透什麼叫做足夠 And understand what is enough 夢醒間似懂繁華又何求 Waking up from my dream and asking myself what am I looking for in life 瀟灑追夢領風騷参東流 Chasing my dreams, taking control, understanding the river flowing to the East will never return 參東流知否猜透亦看透 The river flowing to the East will never return, I fully understand and realize 享好過終究要懂參東流 To have a good life, we must cherish it because life is like a river flowing to the East that will never return 勾畫思緒参東流 Clear my thoughts and cherish life because life is like a river flowing to the East and will never return 冬陽雖好又誰能留 The Winter Sun is so precious, but no one can hold on to it forever 在愛中共振，在感恩中連結打造精采生命，共創美好未來。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 115.43.51.174 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/CATCH/M.1769698339.A.371.html