[求助] 如何幫助在國外讀碩的女朋友走出低潮
看板Boy-Girl (男女)作者polie4523 (冷冷)時間1天前 (2025/05/30 23:38)推噓171(199推 28噓 260→)留言487則, 227人參與討論串1/7 (看更多)
如題。先來簡單背景介紹。
我們交往三年多,她目前在國外讀理工碩,一直以來我們每天都會打電話跟視訊分享彼此生活。我最近才去找她玩一個月,都過的滿開心的沒什麼異樣,現在我剛回台灣還沒過一個月,上個禮拜視訊時有感覺到異樣,她常常有若有所思的表情,看起來心情不是很好,我問她在想什麼都說沒事只是在發呆而已。
三天前她開始不太理我,line傳訊息基本上都不回、打電話很多也沒接。如果是以往她的訊息還有說的話肯定是比我多的,所以很反常。這兩天開始打電話有通後她也是一副不想講話的樣子,都是我單方面在分享生活跟問她的狀況,我不講話她也不會講話,整個就很尷尬。
我嘗試問她這麼心情低落的原因,她會回不知道或是沒怎樣,我原本以爲是我做了什麼惹他生氣或是沒做什麼也惹她生氣,但她也是說沒怎樣只是很累不想講話。不過掛電話時我們都會習慣互相說我愛你這點沒變。
我在想是不是跟課業有關,她平常經常說自己上課聽不懂,在家沒在唸書,都在看YT IG或thread,都在耍廢。我不知道她是對自己感到不滿或是單純在抱怨而已。我都會無腦鼓勵她,因為就我對她的了解,她是一個很有想法而且也有行動力的人,不然她不可能出國唸書與生活什麼的事情幾乎都一個人弄,讀的也是名校。
我現在真的不知道怎麼幫她,遠距離我跟他的互動方式只剩對話了,搞的我也快心情低落,不知道有經驗的版友可不可以給點意見,謝謝。
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