Re: [新聞] 男人就是幼稚！平均43歲才成熟

看板Boy-Girl (男女)作者Fiesta2010 (Fiesta)時間11年前 (2013/06/14 03:12)推噓20(21推 1噓 9→)

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不如就先從原文開始看起吧以下引用Telegraph對這篇新聞的報導 http://tinyurl.com/q6knrxq Men grow up at 43 - 11 years later than women 男人比女人晚11年成熟,這個結論怎麼得到的? 新聞是這樣說的 A study into the differences in maturity between genders revealed both men and women agree men remain 'immature' well into their late 30s and early 40s. 無論男女,都認為男生至40初以前都不成熟 Both men and women agreed women reach proper maturity much earlier than guys, at the typical age of 32 無論男女,都認為女人32歲以後步入成熟也就是說,這篇研究的基礎應該是以問卷形式的統計為依據所謂成不成熟單純是一種受試者主觀的描述跟心證那麼身為男生應該會覺得很奇怪,為什麼男生在填問卷時會自曝其短? 這個我們可以參考新聞裡的另一小段 Men were nearly twice as likely to describe themselves as immature than were women with one in four men believing they are actively immature 比女生高出兩倍的受試男生會描述自己是幼稚且不成熟的 Women were also twice as likely as men to feel that they were the 'grown up' one in their current relationship 比男生高出兩倍的受試女性感覺自己在最近一段感情裡是較成熟的一方 ================================================= 那看到這裡我覺得就沒甚麼好講拉成不成熟這種論戰從小學男生國女生國就開始拉女生從國小就會覺得惡作劇的小男生很幼稚拿著媽媽化妝品高跟鞋亂塗亂穿的小女生也很急著自認為長大對自我形象(氣質女孩)有特定要求的女生更不會到處講自己做了那些蠢事也不會字裡行間穿插一些粗話之類,純粹應社會期待所致從國小狐群狗黨一路到大的男生對自己做的蠢事回首起來通常不會急著否認反而是多了一層童心未泯在同僚團體裡更好相處,自然坦率且不會有甚麼隱瞞另外,我們觀察太陽報的內容可知,這篇性別調查列舉出來的幼稚事項是怎麼個幼稚法 http://tinyurl.com/nxb34g7 Top reasons women find men immature 這裡列舉出來的幼稚是以女性觀點做為出發換句話說,這裡所有的幼稚事項都是女性對男性伴侶的成熟期待那我們就把這些事項寫出來吧,給大家參考 1.Finding their own farts and burps hilarious 覺得自己打嗝或放屁很好玩 2.Eating fast food at 2:00am 凌晨兩點吃速食 3.Playing videogames 玩電玩 4.Driving too fast or 'racing' another car at the lights or on the motorway 車速過快或與其他駕駛競速 5.Sniggering a bit at rude words 以粗話譏諷嘲笑 6.Driving with loud music 開車將音樂音量開大 7.Playing practical jokes 惡作劇 8.Trying to beat children at games and sport 企圖在遊戲裡擊敗參與的小朋友 9.Staying silent during an argument 爭執中保持沉默 (OS:我遇到那種"你說話呀講啊你怎不解釋啊"的歇斯底里者會很沉默..) 10.Not being able to cook simple meals 無法做出簡單的料理(這男女都有吧..) 11.Re-telling the same silly jokes and stories when with the lads 跟女生講老梗的蠢笑話 (OS:我的經驗上,女生除了抱怨同學同事時話會特別多外,真的很需要男生找梗開話題..) 12.Don't like talking about themselves/ having proper conversations 不喜歡講自己的事,或者正經八百的對話 (OS:我也不喜歡講自己的事..) 13.Hating books/reading because of short attention span/they're boring 注意力不集中,不愛讀書,讀書會覺得無聊 14.Doing crazy dance moves 喜歡做瘋狂的動作 15.Mum still doing their washing 讓媽媽洗衣服 16.Having their Mum still make them breakfast/any meal 讓媽媽做三餐 17.Wearing trainers to night clubs 穿運動鞋到夜店 18.Owning a skateboard or BMX 玩滑板或者極限運動自行車 (OS:針對這點對不起我很幼稚..) 19.Not eating vegetables 不吃蔬菜 20.Changing jobs regularly 常換工作 (OS:做總機先生/小姐做到領退休金好像也沒多少..) 21.Getting too excited over stag do's 對婚前單身派對過度興奮 22.Sometimes trying to do wheelies/stunts on their bike 騎車時試著做特技(單輪著地 etc.) 23.Driving a modified car or one with a loud exhaust/boy racer 玩改裝車 24.Showing off about how girls are attracted to them 炫耀哪個小妞跟他看對眼 25.Wearing pyjamas, specifically cartoon pyjamas 穿卡通睡衣 26.Using dodgy chat-up lines 使用拐彎抹腳的方式搭訕 (OS:直接講"小姐給虧嗎"也不好吧..會被當怪咖) 27.Showing off about protein shakes/weight-lifting/how much they 'lift' 重量訓練喜歡炫耀自己喝的蛋白質飲料,或者自己可以舉多少磅 (OS:部分女生講到重訓只會忸怩"蛤~會不會長肌肉>.<"吧..) 28.Littering 亂丟垃圾 29.Wearing saggy-crotched jeans 穿垮褲 30.Having a cartoon bedspread 使用卡通床單 (OS:女生用的才多吧..) ※ 引述《age0fempire3 (喔喔喔喔喔喔喔喔喔喔喔)》之銘言： : ※ [本文轉錄自 Gossiping 看板 #1Hk7l_Pe ] : 作者: whackup (伍陸鈽儜莣) 看板: Gossiping : 標題: Re: [新聞] 男人就是幼稚！平均43歲才成熟 : 時間: Wed Jun 12 21:47:41 2013 : ※ 引述《puppy2891 (puppy)》之銘言： : : 〔本報訊〕電視節目公司「Nickelodeon UK」委託調查公司進行性別成熟年齡差異，發現 : : 女性平均成熟年齡為32歲，男性則普遍幼稚且不成熟，平均要到43歲才會成熟，且10位女 : : 人中有8位相信「男人永遠都是孩子氣的」。 : 報章雜誌永遠只敢寫男人, 因為男人大度, 可以接受批評. : 若是這篇寫女人43歲才成熟, 幼稚的女權團體可能就要戰個幾年. : 女人不意外頗ㄏ -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 101.13.225.115

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