[抒發] 母親過世時的心理調適已回收
家母於母親節當天晚上因病過世
因腦轉移，母親可能早在數天前意識就已經完全崩潰，不曾聽見我喊母親節快樂
雖然早有心理準備，但是要接受至親永遠離開自己身邊還真的是非常不容易
儘管完全沒有流淚，內心感覺卻像是被開了一個洞，一直有東西從洞內流出
我答應過母親不會掉淚，也答應她會照顧家人並兄弟和睦
也早在母親被判斷疾病惡化的數年前與告知母親自己一生以來的疑惑與真心話
亦獲得母親的正面回應與解答
可說是幾乎不存在「還沒講出口的話」等一類的遺憾
但看到幾乎不曾掉淚的父親難過含淚，以及悲痛的弟弟
身為長子的我不知該如何釋放壓力與安慰其他家人
不知各位有類似經驗的朋友是如何度過此一艱難時期的？
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