[心情] 自己實在太弱了給不起安全感
看板Boy-Girl (男女)作者skyfanci (情~)時間2周前 (2025/06/09 11:13)推噓114(136推 22噓 304→)留言462則, 150人參與討論串1/7 (看更多)
年紀已逼近40了,以薪資來說年薪只有百萬出頭,在新北有三間房(2間公寓一間是目前和母
親一起自住的大樓),但是目前是以房養房的狀態,所以房租的收入目前也是不能運用的狀
態,所以勢必婚後就得租房或再買房。
女友本身的原生家庭家境非常好,她自己也非常努力30出頭目前的年薪也會超過150以上(而
且她的產業還會再繼續往上爬),原本有考慮結婚,但是經過這段時間的思考,女友覺得我
的薪資實在太少和她落差太大,婚後甚至生小孩後想依然維持很不錯的生活水準,也希望能
給小孩很不錯的生活環境和生活體驗,她也希望可以不工作多陪陪孩子成長(但是生活水準
也要維持) 最近就這樣卡關了 ,唉,自己真的太弱無法給的起喜歡的人安全感 撐起一個家
我就是單純需要一個心情舒發的管道,打擾了
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