[求助] 男友說付費約會不算出軌???
最近,不知道是不是天氣太熱火氣大,我和男友發生了「激烈的討論」,我開始懷疑我們
對「出軌」的定義是不是有嚴重的認知差異?
一開始我們在聊:
「欸,如果我們遠距離戀愛的話,你會偷偷去找什麼付費約會或鐘點情人嗎?」
原本只是一時興起小聊一下
沒想到男友突然蹦出一句:
「可能會哦!而且付費約會不算出軌吧,充其量只是一種交易。而且誰說約出去就一定會
打炮?說不定只是想看電影、吃個飯臨時找不到人而已啊」
聽到這段話的那一刻,我的內心充滿了問號???
因為對我來說,這就是出軌啊!
無論是否付費,約會的本質不就是和另一個異性產生情慾流動或親密互動嗎?這樣的行為
無論今天有沒有情感上的投入,都算是一種背叛吧!
講白一點就是「大家心照不宣!」
而且在那種氛圍的催化下
難保不會有更親密的行為嗎
即便是各取所需,會不會約到後面就去開房
男友的想法:就算是去開房,也只是交易,不代表背叛。
然而,男友似乎覺得我很盧
他說:「就只是一種單純的”消費行為”,妳到底在糾結什麼?不就像某W開頭約炮軟體
上的那些學生,為了IPhone、化妝品跑去跟男人約會或那些在甜X花園被人家包養的女生
一樣嗎?就是買賣、交易行為,大家各取所需。妳需要我的錢,我需要妳的陪伴或時間,
不就這樣而已?」
反正他就死不認為這是出軌
反而覺得我反應過度
過於保守和傳統
還說我死腦筋轉不過來,不想跟我講話了
想問大家我男友是不是在一起了以後就想開始洗腦我?
想把他那一套歪理灌輸給我
我後來細思極恐
「為什麼男友會知道這麼多付費的管道?」
還說這是男生都知道的常識嗎?
這合理嗎?
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