[心得] 決定不婚兩年後的感想
時間拉回兩年前的七夕情人節,當時已經不知是連續第幾個自己過的情人節了,
看著一堆人雙雙對對高高興興過著情人節的背影,
一個人的我選擇了到大安森林公園練跑度過,回家後開始沉思自己到了這個年紀,
之前感情也不太順下,還需要找對象嗎? 抑或是乾脆不婚一個人單身過下去?
經過一個晚上思考後,隔天的我做出了一個相當重大的決定,
那就是人生的下半場選擇一個人過,不結婚也不再交女友,這個決定當然有些痛苦,
但說實在都已經到了這個年紀,想要找到對象結婚的機會已經非常渺茫,有如大海撈針,
何況家裡一堆問題亦非短期內可以解決,種種情況皆不支持我成家,
與其為了機率很低的結果浪費時間,還不如早點'斷捨離',
不要再去想結婚找對象這種不切實際的事,好好去想如何一個人過好日子比較重要,
既然決定一個人,也就意味著離婚,失戀等問題都不會再發生在我的身上,
我既不需要擔心情人節,耶誕節要買什麼禮物? 花錢買的禮物另一半會不會不喜歡?
也不需要擔心要用什麼方式求婚? 要到哪度蜜月? 婚宴要怎辦要花多少錢?
更不需要擔心婚後要如何與另一半和他們的家人相處,我大可把這些錢拿來給自己吃好吃的,
出國玩好玩的,學學語文或技術,養養寵物,有空多運動練跑讓自己有成就感,
然後存一些錢以便老後不時之需,好歹請得起外傭或住進安養機構,
一個人儘管孤單,但也可以想辦法多多認識朋友,何必非要兩個人不可,
現在的我,只能說或許有時會有空虛感,但是日子還算滿意,
自己一個人上班下班,有空就一個人享受大餐,喝咖啡,出去旅遊或爬山,
挑戰長跑等等,若能找到朋友就找朋友,未來,我會想辦法讓一個人的生活更加快樂,
更加精采.
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