[閒聊] 是因為結婚而結婚還是因為愛?消失
是否同意記者抄文:NO
今天外出跟老闆呀閒聊了一下,(感覺是他的感嘆)
老闆大我一輪多,前年在結婚的樣子!
好像聊到我單身一陣子,覺得以後可能交不到男友還是不會結婚的樣子,因為都沒有遇到
喜歡的人,
他突然說他曾經以為他不會結婚,但遇到了,所以結婚(40歲結婚的樣子),他說結婚對
象不一定是你最愛最喜歡的但一定是相處最融洽的,
(好奇上面這句話是感慨嗎?)
他說他們幾乎不吵架,(可能因為我老闆很少很少生氣的關係?!)
所以想要未來有個伴,真的不能選自己喜歡的嗎
因為我還在很在意外表物質的年紀...
(本身家人結婚都是因為喜歡而結婚雖然結果不一定好)
當然我知道長期來講相處融洽才是根本,
但跟一個不討厭的人結婚,我的疑問是這算是日久生情嗎?這樣也算是愛?
所以真的有日久生情?
想來這邊聽聽姐妹們分享!謝謝
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→ chunpei: 而你的解讀是"不討厭"
對耶!果然每個人想法不同
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是男的
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對耶!
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抱歉
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等我40歲在回來看這文章應該覺得自己很好笑
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好深奧喔!
※ 編輯: momoko520 (42.72.115.124), 06/19/2018 17:57:40
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