[閒聊] 一輩子單身 vs 婚姻不幸福(or離婚)消失
1. 討論或分享婚姻中的大小事。
2. 須有明確實質互動,不接受純理念宣傳或分享文,且須有自身實例或自身受影響,不接?
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魯蛇我40歲一直無法結婚, 認識的女生大約分為這幾類
1. 外表身材無法接受
2. 很在乎對方薪水車房, 重點放在男生能給她什麼,只想確她自己保婚後生活快樂
3. 物質要求較低, 稍微懂的互相,但容易情緒不穩, 或者作事粗心大意缺乏責任感
總之沒有完美的, 自己條件也不是多好, 也只能考慮這些人....
1,2 是完全不考慮
只能考慮3...雖然不是那麼適合但至少還有點戀愛的感覺, 只是離婚機率也高
或許遲早會有一天受不了她亂發脾氣, 做事出包, 沒責任感
(例如銀行/保險這類多一些文字條款的, 她懶的看也看不下去
曾經聽業務的話衝動決定買了些產品, 後來發現不是她要的 不划算 後悔 虧錢
最後在我面前大哭, 發脾氣牽怒我 ,只好幫她去到處打電話詢問解決方案)
我想問大家的是, 一輩子單身 vs 跟婚姻不幸福 大家會怎選??
繼續再認識其它異性, 也差不多就前面說的 1 2 3這幾類
單身一個人到老, 生病只有一個人.....
婚姻不幸福, 至少還有小孩, 雖然不保證小孩孝順, 但還有一點希望
身邊有一些離婚的
沒拿到監護權的..每月給點錢...每周抽一天見小孩
有監護權的就是把生活重心放在照顧小孩身上....
等於是把單身生活撥一部份資源在小孩身上, 從小孩身上獲得一點精神上的滿足
所以我覺得婚姻不幸福(離婚)比單身好一點...
比起單身自由但寂寞...比較均衡一點
請問大家怎看? 畢竟我沒經歷過想法可能有盲點..請給我一點建議 謝謝!
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抱歉 違反了版規真不好意思, 其實前幾個月就想po了, 最近是被逼著要做決定了, 版主
我並不是嫌棄3,前面我也說了人沒有完美自己條件不好 , 只是實際相處的情況覺得遲早?
有人說我一定不夠愛她,但我覺得冤枉這段關係目前一定是我付出較多, 不管是金錢上, 容忍她的脾氣, 或者幫她處理很多小事, 難道關係要更傾斜?
※ 編輯: maravilloso (101.10.5.231), 06/11/2018 18:47:46
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