[心情] 朋友懷了小孩是男孩 他老公很不開心...消失
我朋友碰到的問題 我用第一人稱寫比較方便
先交代一下,我跟老公是大學認識,
交往五年,結婚三年,兩個人同年都是31歲,
平常感情很好,偶爾會有小吵架,
老公一直很想要有小孩,今年覺得兩人的工作收入穩定,
而且也過了30歲所以決定要生了,
懷孕的時候老公對我很好,各種貼心照料,
我們會一起想名字,一起想要帶他去哪裡玩,
要在哪裡生產,哪邊坐月子,還有產後的生活,
甚至說未來戶籍要想辦法遷到台北市,讓小孩讀台北市的學校(老公是新北人),
但一直覺得奇怪的是老公都預想成小孩是女兒,也起了一堆女孩的名字,
我問她說男孩不好嗎? 他也都說都很好,但是還是想要女兒。
直到羊膜穿刺的報告出來以後,
確定是一個男孩,我開心地告訴老公這項消息,
但是他看起來一直很不開心,
知道結果的當晚,老公就說有點事情,一個人出去一下,
回來之後問老公去哪,他只說去找朋友,
我問他是不是不是女孩你很不開心,
他點點頭,說是!
當下我希望能讓老公心情好一點,
就說了很多我們之前的計畫等等之類的,
老公還是沒有什麼反應,
到現在事隔幾天,
老公對我的貼心程度不如還沒確定性別之前了,
很怕小孩出生之後,會不得老公的寵…
該怎麼辦?
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