Re: [心情] 不喜歡自己的小孩怎麼辦?
我覺得父母親愛護小孩的心是天性, 畢竟不愛小孩的夫妻通常不生小孩, 以演化論而言,
先天不愛小孩的人可能絕跡, 回文的人非常多, 但是都是只限於結果討論, 沒人問原PO
是屬於那些職業, 有些職業的壓力或性質的確經不起小孩吵鬧, 例如作家或記者, 另外
原PO是否愛她的老公?? 通常兩人相愛, 依照愛屋及烏原理, 應該也會喜歡愛的結晶, 文
中止看到老公很愛原PO, 但是感受不到原PO愛老公. 還有原PO對於婚姻的態度, 若原PO
的朋友們仍然屬於單身階段, 朋友們到處去玩的炫耀, 是會讓原PO產生對婚姻質疑, 而
小孩也變成累贅.當然以上因素可能會隨當事人心智年齡上升而趨於緩和, 而最比較不好
的是對某種事物產生上癮的行為, 例如線上遊戲或毒品,上癮行為會讓自己極度沉迷於
某些事物, 使得分心事物通通會被厭惡,既然是上癮, 不管心智年齡多高, 可能都無法
跳脫, 通常這些後天的因素是有可能造成內建母愛喪失功能, 小孩是現階段成人的希望,
雖然小孩的過程極度艱辛, 但沒有懷著希望活著更是一件非常空虛以及痛苦的事, 希望
當事人能跳脫目前生活枷鎖, 重啟母愛功能.
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