[閒聊] 夫妻
"夫妻"是甚麼?
前幾天一個已婚的朋友跟單身的我聊到這個話題,
他說夫妻是一種很特別的關係,
那不只是一般所說的家人關係,
(我所認知的家人關係其實應該說是親子,兄弟或者親戚關係)
不只是一般的朋友關係,
(確實朋友間也會有相互扶持的情誼,但夫妻間的扶持好像又不太一樣)
不只是男女朋友關係,
(一般單純的男女朋友交往應該頂多只涉及忠誠問題,
比較少涉及責任或者雙方家庭的問題...老夫老妻的情侶先不算好了)
確實,以前常說我結婚以後和對方相處方式要能相敬如賓,要相互扶持,互相體諒...
對婚姻的許多的憧憬,其實都是在來自自己家裡父母的影子,
但我從來都不是當事人,所以無法了解當夫妻的甘苦.
被朋友這麼一說,發現自己還真不了解所謂"夫妻"究竟是怎麼一回事?
有過來人或是悟道之人能給點意見嗎? :)
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