[心情] 媽媽傳遞的負面能量已回收
各位晚安
這是我第一次在女版發言，排版請見諒。
我和媽媽的感情很好，常常會一起去買東西什麼的，也會聊天，但是我最近實在是受不了媽媽傳遞的負面能量了。
媽媽很愛跟我抱怨事情，我是本著每個人都需要丟心靈垃圾的時間，所以我會安安靜靜聽媽媽抱怨，或是傳遞負面能量，但是到了最近幾年，媽媽傳遞負面能量的時間和次數已經超過我的消化能力了。
每天下班回家，還沒踏進門，只是把門打開，媽媽就會開始傳遞負面能量，誰誰誰又怎樣，大姑姑又說了什麼，奶奶又做了什麼，全都是很負面能量的事情。進門後，我想先去洗個手臉，換個衣服，先回房間整理一下，他就會說：好啦好啦！嫌我煩啦！
我就會很驚訝地否認，但他還是繼續生氣。好不容易撐到要睡覺時間了，媽媽就會跑到我房間繼續跟我傳遞負面情緒，我真的很想喘口氣，很想要大叫，請他別再說了，但我又怕他生氣。
我能體諒媽媽能說話的人不多，但是能不能讓我喘口氣？如果我跟他說：媽，你讓我休息一下好嗎？他就會很氣的說：好啦！我很煩啦！說一下都不行。
我已經不知道該如何解決這個問題了，我那天竟然發覺我下班要踏進家門前都會坐在門前的小板凳上發一下呆再開門。
各位，請教教我要如何跟媽媽溝通，有時候我也需要一些可以喘息的空間，不要再不停的傳遞負面情緒給我了。
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