Re: [問題] 想請問各位
: ...看了這麼多板友責備原po的話,我也覺得原po是不太應該
: (事情既然往好的方向發展了,就不該太追究下去)
: 但是我還是要幫原po說一點話
: 今天沒事了,女方理直氣壯,那是因為往好的方向發展
: 今天如果女方拒絕,結果因為這件事沒見到公公最後一面的話...
不會怎樣啊......因為還不是她公公啊......
就禮數來說本來就不應該想什麼見最後一面的事情
況且還沒有發病危耶....去的話,很多問題都會應運而生
到時候還不是一頓好罵?
: 我覺得不論是男方還女方,心中都會有一點疙瘩吧
: 更何況是男方母親了
: 我猜他母親真正生氣的原因並不是女方沒有馬上趕回來
: 而是女方怎麼沒想到今天真有個萬一發生了怎麼辦?
是要怎麼辦呢?怎麼辦啊?怎麼辦?
沒有怎麼辦啊!就很難過啊!但是又不是她害的
萬一也是因為病發的關係啊
: (這就要問男方是不是已經有承認這媳婦的意思了)
承認了然後呢?謝主龍恩嗎?
我覺得人固然要有感情,固然要有禮貌,很多事情不是理所當然的
寧可不做不可太過,做了之後沒禮貌更要不得
: 總不會說涼拌炒雞蛋,我回南部了,所以一點關係也沒有吧XD
那不然勒?趕回北部,在大家都很忙得時候請男友去車站載他比較帥氣嗎?
怪怪的吧!大家都在忙啊!女生也不一定是沒有想到吧!
我覺得這位版友有點先入為主囉~
: 一個月回家一次所以沒見到公公最後一面...
: 也許現在20、30歲的人可以接受,但是再老一輩的呢...?
: 我認為...流言蜚語的可怕性有時候不是一個人的堅強或是道理可以抵抗的...
流言蜚語最可怕的地方就在於,這時候去的話,大家也會罵你!!!
因為沒有立場啊........!
見最後一面在某些保守的家庭裡,是很親的人才可以做的事情,
一個未過門的女孩,怎麼可以見最後一面?萬一不幸男友家有這種想法,
那不是完了嗎?
想到先前我媽的同事,家裡很保守,那位阿姨在懷孕的時候
她婆婆過世了,那時她還在上班,我媽堅持把他載到家門口,還陪她進去順便上香,
原因是,聽說有規定,婆婆(大體)先入門的話,晚輩要從村子口一路跪回家
.......那,要多會想才有辦法做到這種禮教?不就是秉持多做多錯嗎?
如果真的不幸遇到了,難道要冒流產的風險跪回去大家才甘休?
..........................多為對方想想不行嗎?
(對不起,寫到這邊發現我有點火大,一點禮貌都沒有,
先對這位大大跪拜一下,抱歉,我知道你沒惡意)
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