[吃草] DailyHoroscope12/11
看板Taurus (金牛座(4/21-5/20))作者chy19890517 (mocat)時間7年前 (2018/12/11 01:13)推噓13(13推 0噓 6→)留言19則, 13人參與討論串1/1
你最近可能嘗試幫他人解決問題。
或許，你已經看透了這個問題既有的挑戰與難題點。
但呣呣~即便你提供了所有的幫助，但可能事與願違。
事實上，不去參與尋找問題的解答甚至會更好。
因為他人的成見會導致看不清問題點，甚至自始至終都不把它當成問題。
你會如此認為進而產生責任感。
但如果它並無惡化－－或是到最後都沒惡化的跡象－－那有什麼必須修正的嗎?
有時候，你必須承認不去幫某些人處理麻煩事會是較為明智的選擇。
註:這篇談到的比較像是「無助感」，有時候即便自己傾全力幫忙，但他人聽不進去
就是聽不進去，這時不妨將這件事看成他個人的常態－－至少自己會好過點。
題外話:....在其他版發文被認出來好害羞 =艸=
You may be trying to help someone out with a problem.
You may see the consequences that could develop and the challenges that
are inherent in this problem.
But for all the help you have offered , Taurus , the one you hope to help
doesn't seem to be grateful.
In fact , they may not even be participating in finding the solution.
That may be because that individual does not see the problem as a problem
at all.
That may just be your perspective.
But if it isn't broken--or at least perceived as broken -- then what is there
to fix ?
Sometimes , it's good to recognize that it isn't always wise to fix someone
else's problem.
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