[討論] 分手時會老實說對方的缺點嗎？
感情讓兩個人黏得很緊
不適合就開始磨合
磨到最後決定是否要放棄
其實任一方決定要分手
都是覺得對方有什麼地方自己無法接受
不喜歡 沒辦法再愛了
其中多半包含著認知差異
你覺得我哪裡不好 但我不覺得
我不想要改變
吵架 磨合
還在一起時不一定會說出最真的話
指出對方性格的缺點
或是說個人不喜歡的地方
因為不知道是否能改善 怕會留下陰影
多半委婉 或包容
但在分手時 會不會全盤托出呢
其實文章打一打自己就有答案
如果很確定對方無法改變 那就老實講
讓雙方在感情中都有成長與獲得
結束時至少還有個真實的feedback
如果還不願意說
就只是自己還不那麼確定而已吧
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